In loving memory of Elpida Tsakamas, who passed away peacefully on November 6, 2024. Elpida’s life was a beacon of love and guidance to all who knew her.
A private family service has been held in her honor. She will be remembered deeply by her loved ones, and her memory will continue to be cherished.
You left us beautiful memories,
Your love is still our guide,
And though we cannot see you,
You are always by our side.
Condolences from family and friends are warmly appreciated during this time.
Harper, Pat (Patricia) – Passed away peacefully at her home on Wednesday, November 6, 2024, in her 89th year. Devoted wife of the late Bruce and beloved mother of Dave (Lesley) and Brian. Loving grandma of Kyle (Jessica), Sarah (Diogo), and the late Justin. Proud great-grandma of Wyatt, Sawyer, and Beau.
Pat will be sadly missed but lovingly remembered by her siblings, other family members, and friends. Her kindness and warmth left an indelible mark on all who knew her.
If I should go tomorrow...
It would never be goodbye,
For I have left my heart with you,
So don’t you ever cry.
The love that’s deep within me,
Shall reach you from the stars,
You’ll feel it from the heavens,
And it will heal the scars.
Time of Remembrance
Mount Lawn Funeral Home & Cemetery
Wednesday, November 13, 2024
1:00 PM - 2:00 PM
Memories shared by loved ones:
Lyn Fryer | November 8, 2024
"We shared lots of fun times, lots of laughs and many great memories of Florida. You will be sadly missed. Rest in peace. Love, Dennis and Carolyn."
Christine Fryer | November 7, 2024
"Aunt Pat was such an incredibly kind and sweet lady and will be missed greatly by our entire family. Reunited with Uncle Bruce now. Rest In Peace xoxo."
Born and raised in Oshawa, Scott was a beloved son of Paul and Jane, cherished brother to Quinn, and the loving companion of Emily.
Scott had a remarkable sense of humor, wit, and a touch of sarcasm that brought joy to everyone around him. He loved people, animals, and nature, especially spending time with his family’s dogs. Scott was an avid reader and writer, keeping extensive notes on his thoughts and interests. Artistically talented, he excelled in college, where he was on the honor roll and mentored many fellow students.
One of Scott’s favorite pastimes was going to yard sales with his brother, Quinn, where they would find hidden treasures that always managed to sell. Scott also loved buying and selling items online, turning even ordinary items into valuable finds. He was known and loved by everyone who met him, and people often shared with his mother what a kind and thoughtful person he was.
We are all blessed to have had Scott in our lives. “May flights of angels sing thee to thy rest.”
Love, Mom, Dad, and Quinn
Funeral Details
Visitation
Mount Lawn Funeral Home & Cemetery
Saturday, November 9, 2024
1:30 PM - 3:30 PM
Graveside Service
Mount Lawn Funeral Home & Cemetery
Saturday, November 9, 2024
3:00 PM - 4:00 PM
After a rich and varied life of 92 years, Ken McDonald passed away peacefully in the hospital with his family by his side. He was a devoted husband to Lucie for 68 years and a loving father to his four children: Catherine (Frank), Vivian (John), Jacqueline, and Michael (Amanda). His eight grandchildren—Kyle, Brendan, Emily, Scott, Laurel, Mark, Sarah, and Aimee—and seven great-grandchildren: Holden, Cordelia, Thea, Olivia, Lucie, Jack, and James, will carry precious memories of him. Ken was a playful and caring Grandpa.
Ken briefly attended McGill University before joining the RCAF, inspired by his cousin’s pilot’s uniform. It was while stationed in France that he met Lucie, who returned to Canada with him to build a beautiful life together.
Known for his strong sense of responsibility, Ken also had a soft heart. Early in his career at GMAC, while tasked with repossessing a TV from a family with young children, he stayed to let them finish their show and even left them each a quarter. He soon moved into data management services, later retiring from EDS in 1992 after proudly completing his degree part-time through the University of Toronto in 1990.
Family vacations to Wasaga Beach, Cape Cod, and Florida with his siblings Bryce (Kay), Robert (Evelyn), and Gail (Barry) were treasured times, as were his travel adventures with Lucie. Together, they explored destinations in Europe, Russia, China, and more, with Ken often behind the camera capturing each journey.
Ken was a role model, a devoted family man, and the epitome of a good human being. His humor, kindness, and ability to laugh at himself made him a cherished figure in the lives of all who knew him. We are deeply saddened by his passing but grateful for the countless memories and the legacy of love and laughter he leaves behind. He truly lived a life well lived, and we will miss him dearly.
A private family celebration of Ken’s life will take place in the spring.
In loving memory of Bruce Couper, who peacefully passed away at Lakeridge Health Oshawa on Tuesday, November 5, 2024, after courageously facing MS for the past 48 years. Bruce was the beloved husband of Carol-Ann (nee Frost) and the loving father of Christopher Couper. He was a cherished grandfather to Nicky, Taylor, and Alexis, and will be missed dearly by his in-laws, extended family, and friends.
In keeping with Bruce’s wishes, cremation has taken place, and services were entrusted to Mount Lawn Funeral Home & Cemetery, 21 Garrard Road, Whitby, Ontario.
In lieu of flowers, the family kindly requests memorial donations be made in Bruce’s name to the MS Society of Canada.
Dr. John Stephen Tomas, retired in 2014 after practicing medicine for over 50 years in Oshawa, passed away peacefully at Markham Stouffville Hospital on Sunday, November 3rd, 2024, surrounded by his family.
Predeceased by his beloved wife, Eleanor (2015). He was the much-loved and devoted Tata of Karen Tomas and her partner Larry, and Diane Tomas and her partner Gerry. Cherished Dziadzia of Hope and Melissa, and Great Dziadzia of Sawyer. Survived by his brother, Michael Tomas, and his wife Rita.
Family and friends are invited to visitation at Barnes Memorial Funeral Home, 5295 Thickson Rd. N., Whitby, on Monday, November 11th from 4:00 p.m. to 7:00 p.m. A Funeral Mass will be held at St. Leo the Great Catholic Church, 130 Watford Street, Brooklin, on Tuesday morning, November 12th, at 11:00 a.m.
John will be laid to rest beside his wife at Resurrection Catholic Cemetery, Whitby. Messages of condolence and shared memories may be left for the family at barnesmemorialfuneralhome.com.
Audrey Elizabeth Nickelchok (Robertson) passed away peacefully at her home on Tuesday, November 5th, 2024, at the age of 61, with her family by her side. She was the loving wife and best friend of Darryl, and the much-loved Mum of Derek (Joana), Chris, Brett (Isabelle), Samantha, and Josh.
Audrey was a devoted Grammy to her cherished grandchildren Mackenzie, Nathan, Madelyn, and Kaelen. She will be dearly missed by her siblings, Brian (Hillary) and Colin (Connie), and is predeceased by her brother Jim, as well as her parents Jim and Jean Robertson. Audrey will also be lovingly remembered by her mother-in-law, Cora Nickelchok, and her brother-in-law, Terry Nickelchok.
Family and friends are welcome to pay their respects during visitation at Barnes Memorial Funeral Home, 5295 Thickson Rd. N., Whitby, on Friday, November 8th from 10:00 a.m. until the time of service in the Barnes Chapel at 12:00 noon. Interment will follow at Groveside Cemetery, Brooklin.
In memory of Audrey, memorial donations to the Canadian Cancer Society would be greatly appreciated. Messages of condolence and shared memories may be left for the family at barnesmemorialfuneralhome.com.
Larry William John Pennell, age 76, of Bowmanville, Ontario, passed away on Saturday, October 19, 2024.
A celebration of life for Larry will be held on Saturday, November 16, 2024, from 1:00 PM to 4:00 PM at Courtice Funeral Chapel, located at 1587 Highway #2, Courtice, ON L1E2R7.
Family and friends are encouraged to arrive between 1:00 pm and 1:30 pm. In honor of Larry’s easy-going spirit, guests are invited to dress casually—just as he would—in Wrangler blue jeans, a black T-shirt, or a black long sleeve shirt with jeans.
Memories and notes of condolence may be shared at Courtice Funeral Chapel.
Peacefully, at Lakeridge Heights Retirement Residence, Nicholina (Nicky) Bellissimo passed away in her 95th year on November 3, 2024. She was predeceased by her beloved husband Salvatore (Sam), son-in-laws Steven Holland and Ronald Mimms, her brother Arthur, and sister Ann.
Nicky was a cherished mother to her son Ralph (wife Laurel) and daughter Vicki. She was the loving grandmother of Carl, Luc (Faye), and Christopher, and great-grandmother to Colton and Sloan DiCarlo-Bellissimo, and Rowan James Holland-Houston. She will also be fondly remembered by her many nieces and nephews.
Nicky was born in Toronto and grew up in Mimico. She worked as a dedicated legal secretary until the age of 60 and was actively involved in The Catholic Women’s League until her later years. Recognized twice as Volunteer of the Year in Whitby, she was known for her warmth and generosity, often hosting family gatherings, preparing her famous Sunday dinners with dozens of meatballs, and winning several family baking contests.
Visitation will be held at Mount Lawn Funeral Home & Cemetery, 21 Garrard Road, Whitby (North of Hwy 2) on Wednesday, November 6, 2024, from 2:00 PM to 5:00 PM, and Thursday, November 7, 2024, from 10:00 AM until the time of service in the chapel at 11:00 AM. Interment will follow at Resurrection Catholic Cemetery.
Memories and notes of condolence may be shared at Mount Lawn Funeral Home & Cemetery.
Prayer of St. Francis of Assisi:
Lord, make me an instrument of Your peace...
Where there is sadness, joy.
O Divine Master, grant that I may not so much seek to be consoled as to console; To be understood as to understand; To be loved as to love; For it is in giving that we receive; It is in pardoning that we are pardoned; And it is in dying that we are born to Eternal life.
St. Francis of Assisi
Pamela Anne van Rossem, born on February 2, 1936, in London, England, passed away peacefully at the age of 88. Pam was a remarkable woman whose life reflected her dedication to family, her love for all living things, and her unwavering commitment to defending the underdog.
The family extends heartfelt thanks to the staff at Lakeridge Gardens Long-Term Care Home for the compassionate care they provided Pam in her final years.
Pam embraced many roles throughout her life, from working as a magazine editor to being a stay-at-home mother, community TV programmer, and later a cashier. Her husband, Johan (Joe) van Rossem, and their family were her greatest joy, and she poured her boundless compassion and strength into everything she did.
Pam leaves behind her beloved husband Joe and sons Chris (Susanne) and Tim (Sophie) van Rossem. She was a proud and loving grandmother to her cherished grandchildren: Oliver, Emily, Millie, and Ella. Her warmth, fierce spirit, and devotion will be forever remembered by those who knew and loved her.
A "Time to Remember" gathering will be held on November 15, 2024, at the McEachnie Family Centre, 28 Old Kingston Road, Ajax, Ontario, from 3:00 PM to 6:00 PM. Family and friends are invited to join in celebrating Pam’s life and sharing memories of a truly extraordinary woman. In Pam’s memory, please consider donating to the Alzheimer Society – Durham Region.
Memories and notes of condolence may be shared at McEachnie Funeral Home.