Vera, born September 24, 1932, passed away at Lakeridge Health Centre in Oshawa on January 22, 2021 in her 89th year.

Devastated by the passing, on January 12, 2021, of Anthony, her husband, soul mate and love of her life, Vera suffered a massive stroke three days later, on January 15, 2021.

Six days after her stroke, she passed away with her devoted son, Christopher, by her bedside.

Beloved and devoted wife of Anthony.

Cherished mother of Jeannette, Richard, Christopher and Jacqueline (Robert). Adored grandmother of Krystian and of her predeceased grandson, Mark Anthony.

Of Ukrainian descent, Vera was born and raised on a farm in Pickering. She was the sister of Josephine and the second of only two children born to Julia and William Wasylyk. Vera attended public school and high school in Pickering before their family moved to Oshawa.

After high school, she attended nursing school at Oshawa General Hospital School of Nursing, completing her practicum at Toronto General Hospital and at the (former) Whitby Psychiatric Hospital in 1954.

After graduation, she became a floor-duty nurse at the Oshawa General Hospital (now Lakeridge Health Centre).

During this time, she met her soon-to-be husband, Anthony, and they were married in 1955. They were completely devoted to one another, inseparable in life and now in death. They would have been married 66 years on February 12, 2021.

Professionally, she was quickly promoted to evening Head Nurse and subsequently to evening Supervisor of Nursing at Oshawa General Hospital. She worked part-time while raising 4 children with her husband and accepted a full-time position at the hospital after her children went off to university and college.

An active professional life along with raising four children left her little time to nurture her own hobbies and outside interests. After retirement, she enjoyed tending her garden, playing Sudoku, and caring for and helping to raise her grandson, Krystian.

Vera had incredible strength of character, a generosity of spirit and an unrelenting work ethic that permeated everything she did in her life. This work ethic was instilled in her from an early age when she was required to dutifully help her father on their farm.

She had an unwavering moral compass and firm set of values and principles that she lovingly imparted to her children.

Vera was a kind, gentle, unassuming, generous, and selfless woman with a modest and self effacing nature. She was shy and introverted, but enjoyed attending as many Polish and Ukrainian events as possible because she simply loved dancing with her husband.

Together they made a strikingly handsome couple. Even as they aged and experienced limited mobility, they would still get out on the dance floor, lovingly support each other, perhaps sway a little for a song or two, and have a wonderful time just being together.

Vera’s husband and children were her life. She was incredibly proud of all of her children. She embodied the essence of motherhood, always putting the well-being and needs of her children first, never needing or wanting to be the centre of attention but instead shunning the limelight so her children could shine.

She felt heart-breaking empathy towards her children, experiencing their pains, trials and tribulations as though they were her own.

Even though years of hard work, various physical injuries, and arthritis began to affect her mobility resulting in a great deal of physical pain, she kept the suffering hidden from others, never complaining, always continuing to put the needs of her family before her own.

She remained fiercely independent to the end, insisting on doing everything herself, and only reluctantly accepting help from others.

Vera was an extraordinary wife, mother and grandmother who will be lovingly cherished and live on forever in the memories of her adoring children and grandson.

We know that somewhere out there, Mom, you are dancing to your favourite song, “The Last Waltz," with our beloved Tatuś.

“I fell in love with you, The last waltz should last forever.”

Now, at the end of this dance called life, Mom and Dad, you are dancing your last waltz together and it will last forever as it was always meant to.

We love you and miss you both incredibly. The unbearable void that has been left can never be filled.

We, her remaining family, are incredibly grateful to the staff at Lakeridge Health Centre C5 stroke unit, especially Dr. Lee and nurses Tracey, Samantha, Haley and Christina for their loving care, attentiveness, and guidance throughout our mother’s brief final journey.

A visitation will be held for Vera together with her husband, Anthony, on Wednesday, January 27, 2021 from 3 pm to 5 pm at ARMSTRONG FUNERAL HOME.

Due to the ongoing pandemic restrictions, the number of visitors allowed is very limited and will, as a result, need to be scheduled on a first-come-first-served basis.

To book a scheduled time to attend the visitation, please either call Armstrong Funeral Home (905-433-4711) directly, or visit the website and book online at ARMSTRONG FUNERAL HOME

A private funeral mass will be held for both Vera and Anthony together at St Hedwig’s Church on Olive Ave. in Oshawa.

In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to the Heart and Stroke Foundation or to the Arthritis Society.

Condolences may be shared at armstrongfh.ca .

(July 24, 1931 - January 13, 2021)Passed away peacefully on Wednesday, January 13, 2021 in his 90th year. A private family visitation and service will be held in Whitby, on Thursday January 21st at 11:00 a.m., followed with interment at MOUNT LAWN CEMETERY.Due to COVID19 restrictions, the service will be private.You are invited to watch the livestream of the service, please click on the link below at the 11:00 a.m. service time. Click on this link: Funeral Service Link .

April 28th, 1918 - January 9th, 2021Passed away peacefully on Saturday January 9th, 2021 at the age of 102 after a life well lived.She almost reached her next life goal of celebrating her 103rd birthday on April 28th.She was both proud of and somewhat amazed with her age. We credit her longevity to no nonsense, clean living, and her routine afternoon nap.Cherished wife of William V. Jarrett (predeceased 1998) for 59 years. Most loved Mother of Robert (Carleen) of Brooklin, Virginia Ann (Aurèle) of Markdale, David (Shirley) of Fort Erie, Linda (Douglas) of Pickering. Proud grandmother of Paul (Liz), Laurie (Louis), Leeanne, Melanie (Perry), Scott (Misako), Stephen (Lori), Stephannie, Christopher, Alysha (Ben) and Dylan (Andra). Delighted great grandmother of Brendan, Kieran, Evan, Teagan, Brook, Paulina, Sia, Brooke, Tyler, Rush, Emma, Mia, Lea, Leif. Virginia was born in 1918 in Stamford, Connecticut. She came to Canada as a young child with her Father and resided in Hamilton, Ontario and later in Dundas, Ontario.She was a graduate of Westdale Secondary School in Hamilton and worked as a stenographer at Stelco in the medical department. She then chose to be a stay-at-home Mom to devote her attention to her family.Virginia was an accomplished seamstress and a wonderful cook.She handcrafted clothing for the family, square dance dresses for herself, and baked family favourites such as the best butter tarts and lemon meringue pies. She also enjoyed crocheting, knitting and needle point.Later in life she developed an interest in art appreciation.She supported William (Bill) in all his musical endeavors, choir and solo appearances, Hamilton Theatre Company, the Harlequin Singers, Gilbert and Sullivan Operettas, and Geritol Follies.During their retirement years, Virginia and Bill enjoyed walking, square dancing, ballroom dancing, theatre, the philharmonic, and became world travellers. While Virginia was a quiet personality, she had a subtle sense of humour, surprising wit, and demonstrated patience and understanding. Virginia was an only child who grew to be an awesome role model for all her family members. Due to COVID 19 – the family will plan a Celebration of Life once safe gatherings are allowed.If you wish to do something in Virginia’s memory consider a donation to: https://www.canadahelps.org/en/charities/ajax-pickering-hospital-foundation/ mental health program .Messages of condolence and shared memories can be left for the family by visiting barnesmemorialfuneralhome.com .

March 25, 1930 – December 30, 2020On Wednesday, December 30th, 2020, Violet “Lorraine” Anderson, with no family by her side, she did not pass peacefully at 90 years of age, but rather endured five weeks of severe ravages of the Covid-19 virus at Sunnycrest Nursing Home! What a fighter she was, trying her best to not give up, rallying multiple times! We were blessed to have many caring members of the health care team including Red Cross volunteers who were by her side and comforted her in her time of need. We know that her Lord and Saviour welcomed her with open arms. Lorraine was a longtime member of the St. George’s Memorial Anglican Church Women, having served in many capacities of Christian and charitable work. Recognized as an outstanding member of the Royal Canadian Legion Br. 43 Oshawa, the woman behind a great man, she was the rock of the family, and the most loving and caring grandmother and great grandmother. Not much made her happier than to have family come for Sunday dinner. Beloved wife of Fred for 58 years before his passing in 2012. Loving mother of Steven (Brenda) of Bowmanville and Diane (John Campbell) of Norwood. Dearly loved by her grandchildren, Scott (Sheri) Goff, Brian (Kirsten) Anderson, Paul (Rae) Goff, Patricia (Luke) Schram, Lisa (Michael) Runcieman, great grandchildren Nate, Laura, Megan, Taylor (predeceased), Zoey, Rachel, Leighton, Valerie, Weston, Vivian, Lincoln, Averie and Harrison, and step great grandchildren Trever, Spenser and Arlene. Predeceased by her parents Charles and Alice (Weale) Thornington. Dear sister of Alberta Howard (the late Earl) (Bill Schloen) and Doris Thornington. Dear sister-in-law of Gerry Thornington (the late Stan), Dorothy Anderson (the late Duncan), Winnie Millard (the late Claude and Dave). Predeceased by siblings; Larry (the late Lylah), Lillian (the late Doug), Herb (the late Anna), Ella (the late George and Daincourt), Albert, Ted (the late June), Stan (Gerry). Fondly remembered by her many nieces, nephews, extended family and friends. Private family service to take place at OSHAWA FUNERAL HOME, 847 King Street West (905-721-1234). The service can be viewed at https://funeraweb.tv/en/diffusions/22060 on Saturday, January 2nd at 1:30 p.m. Interment Thornton Cemetery. Memorial donations to the Royal Canadian Legion Br. 43 Oshawa, St. George’s Memorial Anglican Church or The War Amps would be appreciated. Online condolences may be made at oshawafuneralhome.com .